FRIENDS ARE REALLY OUR MOST PRECIOUS GIFTS
A friendship is really special. It supports us in those times when we have no one by our side. It gives us those moments of happiness and laughter which we can cherish all our life. No matter what the fate of your friendship is, it is still a beautiful gift.
WHY DIDNT IT WORK OUT?
I remember how my beautiful friendship broke because it was based on each of us constantly wanting something from each other. Our wants crush our beautiful bonds. I have learned that the more you are willing to serve and give, the stronger and better your friendship is.
DONT MAKE IT BITTER
Just stop this blame game now. Blaming the other person will do you no good. The judgements you have placed upon them are ultimately reflecting your own unhealed self back to you. Release all judgements. Show up for these painful moments with love. Embrace it as the divine will and let go of them with love.
ALLOW YOURSELF THE TIME YOU NEED TO HEAL
Letting go isnt an instant process. There will be days when you just feel so low that you cant get any work done. There are even those days when you sit and listen to all the friendship songs thinking of them. Thats all right. You need time. Take it and embrace all your wounds. Learn from your bittersweet experiences and slowly release all pain.
COMPASSION AS YOUR MAGIC WAND
Allow yourself to receive divine help as you heal. Be willing to see them in light. Be willing to share their sorrows and sufferings. Bring in kindness to this situation. Whatever they did to you, it may not be right. They may have hurt you. But now its time to be kind to yourself. Its time to love yourself fully and ask the divine to help you. Keep them in your prayers and slowly in the eternal flame of kindness, you shall see their wounds too. Bless them and release them on their path.
ITS NOT OVER TILL ITS REALLY OVER
Surrender your friendship to God. Do not pray for them to come back. Instead, pray for their well being and send them love. Pray for the highest good of all. Embrace the healing process and slowly you will start seeing the beauty of friendships. Maybe they wont ever come back or maybe they will but dont keep yourself tied to it. Love is liberation. Release all attachments and pray for them with love. Be grateful for having them in your life and let go with love.