WHY AM I UNABLE TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS
This happens quite often. Maybe we have just moved in to a new place or we are suffering from the wounds of a broken friendship, we find it difficult to find our special friends. Here I am going to share with you some insights about forming these precious bonds of love and trust.
GET COZY AND PICK UP A BOOK
Okay, so before we welcome new friends into our lives, lets just relax and settle down a bit. Dim the lights a little, create some space, grab a non fiction book like a devotional book, a happiness guide or a nice spiritual book.
IMAGINE AND WRITE IT DOWN
I imagine myself with my best friend in my dream home drinking a cup of hot chocolate coffee with cookies on a winter night close to the fireplace. You can imagine yourself going on a trip with your friends or studying and working together. Now write this down in your friendship journal as it its already happening. Mention all the little details and infuse them with love.
PRAY AND SURRENDER
Pray for true friends and not just people to hang out with. Pray for strength to be a true friend yourself. Surrender to God and embrace his will.
ARE THERE ANY SIGNS?
The universe might me leading you with certain signs. These maybe signboards or beautiful coincidences. I remember that once my mind and heart were at loggerheads regarding a decision I had to make. I went out on lunch with my Dad when I noticed a sign board on one of the glass walls which read,” MIND YOUR HEAD.”
HAVING ROLE MODELS DOES THE JOB BETTER
My role models are the winx group of fairies from the animated series “Winx Club.” I simply adore their friendship. There was a really beautiful scene when Bloom doesnt have enough money for a dress and Stella agrees to pay for it but Flora stops her saying that it isnt correct. Ultimately Bloom creates a wonderful dress for herself. True friends help and empower us.
Your role models can be a group of friends from a movie or television show which you really love. It creates enthusiasm and you feel lighter and uplifted.
So I wish you good luck and I am sending you lots of love and happiness